Thursday, November 24, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving!

Today the palace is doing it big. Our apartment volunteered to host Thanksgiving for all of our American Nairobi-dwelling friends. Each attendee is responsible for a different dish, so we have a full course planned (complete with turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry sauce, gravy, green beans, apple crisp AND pumpkin pie.) My dish you ask? I was assigned the job of purchasing wine. My friends have so much faith in my cooking ability.

I must admit that this morning when I woke up I was somewhat homesick. It's a strange and unfamiliar feeling for me not to be with my family today. It's the first Thanksgiving in my entire life that I will celebrate away from the Hessler household. I will be sitting at a table with adults (if that's what you want to call ten 20 and 21 year old college juniors), rather than sitting at the "kids" table that Kristen, DJ, Daniel, Lauren and I share each year.

I realized though, a few hours later as I was sitting at Dormans, enjoying a cup of coffee and journaling about all the things in my life I am thankful for, that Thanksgiving means so much more to me here in Kenya than it has ever meant to me before, and because of this, I am extremely grateful. This semester, all things comfortable have been stripped away and I have been living in a "third-world" country, experiencing a foreign culture, away from all things familiar. Though difficult at times, being here has made extremely thankful for my life back home. A classic case of, "you don't know what you have until it's gone." Though my life is not really "gone" per say, and I'm coming back to the states in two weeks, back to the comfort and familiarity of home, I'm returning with a new perspective on my life and how blessed I really am.

As much as I wish I could be celebrating Thanksgiving with my family today, I'm grateful that I have this chance to reflect on all the things that I am truly thankful for. I thought I would share some of this list with y'all. There are so many things that I appreciate that I didn't even realize until they weren't here for me anymore this semester. Hope you enjoy :)

Things that I am thankful for:
-My amazing family who supports me in all that I do and loves me unconditionally
-My friends who encourage me to be the best person I can be
-The ability to attend UNC and receive an amazing college education
-The opportunity I was given this semester to experience a whole new way of life and culture
-"The palace" (our apartment during my month-long research) and the girls I live with
-My host mother, Mama Dorthy, who graciously opened up her home to me my first 2.5 months here
-Electricity, internet access and hot water
-Shower heads
-America
-Crosswalks and cars stopping for you
-Karol, my Kenyan friend who serves coffee at Dormans, who has always been kind and polite to me since day 1, despite Kenyan culture not encouraging waitresses to act this way
-Jesus
-Our gate guard, Gilbert, who keeps the bad guys out
-Buddy and Tessa, my puppies
-CLEAN AIR in America
-Effective trash collecting systems back home
-Southern hospitality
-Mom's cooking
-Fireplaces
-The changing of seasons
-ArtCaffe, my favorite coffee shop in Nairobi, that lets me post-up there and work all day
-Grace and Maragaret, the amazing women who worked as house helps for my host family

There are so many more things that I am thankful for that I have only just begun to realize this semester. The list could go on for pages, but I'll leave it be for now. (I need to start getting ready for our guests) I'm so grateful for each and every one of you reading this right now and I miss y'all SO much.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving. Enjoy your time with family and friends and remember that we all have so much to be thankful for!

Until next time-

Megan

Edit--here are some pictures from Thanksgiving!


 Proof that my roommates don't trust my cooking. Here's my contribution to dinner
 Our table!
 Roommates!
 Slicing the turkey...which was cooked upside down..oops
Getting ready to eat! Donna and Odoch came to dinner too!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Updates from Nairobi

I'm sorry for the lack of updates. Brooke made me promise to update this ASAP (here's your shout-out Brooke!) as I haven't posted since my research started.

The past week and a half I've been living in an apartment in Nairobi with 5 other (awesome) girls. It's been SO nice having electricity that doesn't cut out every hour, real showers (with hot water!) and ...wait for it...a WASHING MACHINE! (no more hand washing all my clothing) We talk about how spoiled we are here on a daily basis--having access to all these amenities we haven't had for 4 months. It makes me appreciate the little things at home I take for granted all the time. (It's going to be the craziest thing EVER when I can use a dryer back in the states)

I'm having a blast living with my friends-- they're all hilarious and so much fun to be around. Day 1 in our apartment we decided that we wanted to have family dinners each night, so each of us pick one night a week to cook and the 7th night we go out somewhere fun for dinner. Mom, you'd be so proud of me-- I'm finally learning to cook. All my friends here can't fathom that good ole Nancy is a cook, yet making pasta is struggle for me. For my first dinner I made spaghetti (with some help) and my second cooking night I made pancakes. (So maybe I'm not an expert yet...but I'm trying!) I'm determined to go all out for my final meal and try something a bit more difficult-- suggestions are definitely welcomed.


 Our first dinner as an apartment!

My research has been fascinating thus far. Last week, I conducted interviews almost every day with people working with initiatives to distribute sanitary protection to girls in Nairobi. Talking to them allowed me to gain a basic knowledge of the issues that girls in poverty-stricken areas face while on their period and provided some insight into their world. This week I'll be traveling to three different schools to distribute surveys related to menstruation management issues. I will also be leading multiple discussions with groups of 6-10 girls at each school, in hopes of learning about these issues more in depth.

The goal of my research is to determine the most sustainable method of sanitary protection for girls in poor areas of Nairobi. This idea stemmed from a study I discovered that revealed that Kenyan girls miss an average of 4.2 days of school each month due to their period. In an environment that already favors boys and pushes them further in the education system than girls, these days of missed school further impede the girls' success. Many NGOs and CBOs are just now beginning to realize that the taboo topic of menstruation that affects half the world's population is something worth looking into. However, it's critical to address each community differently, as cultural norms and perceptions shape the type of sanitary protection to which girls have access and use.

It's enlightening to live in an apartment where all 6 of us are conducting different types of research. Our dinner conversations are fascinating as we learn what the other five are finding. Sam's researching financial literacy for young girls; Caitlin is working with school feeding programs; Anna is learning about HIV/AIDS through different support groups in Nairobi; Ariana is assessing the level of autism awareness in Kenya and Alex is testing to see what percentage of the sexual education curriculum is actually implemented in public schools.

We are living in this apartment until December 2nd working on our ISPs (Independent Student Projects). After we finish these, we will spend a week on the coast (hopefully, plans might change though depending on the terrorist threat level) with the entire SIT group presenting our ISPs and enjoying our final days in Kenya. It's crazy that I'm going to be home in 4 weeks! This semester has FLOWN by. I'm so excited to see everyone back home but I'm not looking forward to leaving the friends I have made here (and the warm weather...)

I'll have more updates after I interview the girls this week and spend another fabulous week with my crazy apartment. Let me introduce them to you...just so you can imagine all the fun that is happening here.

 Sam, me, Alex, Anna, Caitlin and Ariana 
The whole motley crew 

That's all for now. Until next time!

Megan

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

I'm back! ....and alive!

Hello world, it's me, Megan. I'm back from Tanzania, alive and safe! This past week seemed to have been a great time to temporarily leave the country, as Al-Shaabab set off three bombs throughout the city (no worries though, I'm taking every precaution to keep safe) Kenya recently declared war against the Al-Shabaab terrorist militant group that they believed were responsible for the recent kidnappings of westerners along the coast, as well as other acts of violence over the past few years. In retaliation for entering Somalia, Al-Shabaab has threatened to bomb Nairobi, and wreak havoc throughout the city.

On a lighter note, I'm not living in city center, where the threats seem to be focused and I will be avoiding bars, clubs and busy areas as a safety precaution...but enough about that scary stuff..

Tanzania was an AMAZING week filled with adventure. I decided to go day by day just to let y'all know what all I had the opportunity to experience :)

Day 1- Sunday, October 23rd
We all met early Sunday morning, packed into a small van and headed for the border. 6 hours later we finally reached our destination, Arusha. We stated at this place called the UAACC (United African Alliance Community Center) which is a compound run by Pete and Charlotte O'Neal. Both were members of the Black Panther Party during the civil rights movement when Pete was charged with helping transport a gun across state lines. Wanted by the police, Pete (31 at the time) and Charlotte (only 19!) fled the country. They lived in Algeria for two years and then moved to Tanzania where they have been living ever since then. After dinner we watched a documentary about Pete (which was really interesting) and then sat around with him and Charlotte and asked them questions about their lives in exile. Pete, who was once an outspoken, feisty youth, now runs this vibrant community center which provides vocational classes, clean water and a children's home for the community. This now 70 some year old panther has definitely changed over the years. 

Day 2- Monday, October 24th
After breakfast we headed out to Maasai land, which was about 3 hours away from the UAACC. We arrived at the Maasai village, Engkarat, around noon where we were greeted by a host of about 20 village women singing for us. That afternoon we walked around the village and met our Maasai host for the next few days, Ngong Goy. He told us all about their culture, language and practices.

greeting the mamas

Later in the afternoon we visited different "bomas" (basically little neighborhoods of huts) and also collected firewood for the fire after dinner. Elders of the village came to the fire and sat around with us answering any questions we had about their lives. The most interesting, and also disturbing, thing I learned is that many women in the village still participate in female genital mutilation.

Day 3- Tuesday, October 25th

The day of the goat sacrifice.

Oh boy, I don't really even know how to describe this, but I will try. We all gathered different items around the community (firewood, medicine, goat poo) for the sacrifice and then met under this huge tree in the middle of the village. Tied to the tree was this adorable goat, who didn't have a care in the world...and certainly didn't realize his life was about to end.

The Maasai men asked for 3 volunteers and then held down the goat and suffocated it (this is actually a humane way of killing the animal..I don't even want to think about the inhumane ways used back home) Now, I'm not a vegetarian, but it was difficult to watch this animal die before my eyes. After they killed the goat, the men began to skin it (also difficult to watch) and took its organs out to boil and cook them over the fire (sorry for the details)

Elders, warriors and boys receive different parts of the goat to eat. The elders receive the best parts and it would be unacceptable for anyone but an elder to eat these parts. After dividing up the parts, the elders placed some of the goat's blood in a rib cage and invited us to drink it. 

At this point, I was trying to keep my breakfast down, but a few brave souls went for it. 




After the blood drinking (ugh) and the cooking of all the parts we had lunch (luckily not the goat) and then headed out to meet with the village mamas for some beading lessons. They told us about the meaning of each colored bead and then we all made bracelets and necklaces together. My mama was so sweet-- I thought that she was making jewelry for herself, but she ended up giving me all of her work in the end. 


Day 4- Wednesday, October 26th

We woke up early (per usual) and headed out to this remote village about 5 hours away from the Maasai village (quite the trek along unpaved roads). We split up into smaller groups and traveled by safari SUVs which was really fun. My car was me and 5 of my closest friends here so we had a blast traveling along this unpaved road to the village. We were told that we would be visiting one of the last hunter-gatherer societies in East Africa, but after arriving there, we all came to the conclusion that we were just a part of a big tourist scheme. It seemed like this was some sort of fake village set up to make money. We never got a clear answer, but it was still fun walking through the bush and seeing their "life." At the end of the visit the men taught us how to shoot arrows. I actually hit the target on my second try....I see a future in archery for me if all else fails after college.
our awesome safari car


That night we camped at a site a few hours away from Arusha. For the first time in 4 days were were able to shower which was SO nice. My legs were caked with dirt and dark brown dust from the week of traveling through the bush. 

Day 5- Thursday October 27th

SUCH a good day! We woke up early..duh...and headed to Ngorongoro Crater where we went on safari for the day. Even though I've been on safari before in Nakuru, this trip was completely different. The safari was actually in this crater. After paying the park fees, we descended 4,000 feet to start our safari. The morning was filled with your typical animals that are in abundance in the parks--zebras, gazelle, birds, buffalo--but after lunch I was SO excited as we were able to stop our car RIGHT next to a sleeping lion. At first I thought she was dead...I mean she was laying with her four paws up in the air. She looked like my dog, Tessa, who sleeps like this on the reg. But after a minute, the lion rolled over and I quickly realized that she was no where close to dead...she was very much alive. We were so close that I actually was concerned for our safety..but decided to ignore that concern and take in this once in a lifetime opportunity. She didn't seem phased by us and went about her business, stalking the zebra in the distance. 



The office is closing up soon, so I'm rushing ahead to finish this post! Friday we spent the day in Arusha where we visited the Tribunal for the Genocide in Rwanda and a mental health facility that is the first of its kind in northern Tanzania. Both visits were interesting, but no where near as exciting as Saturday, where we spent the day hiking up part of Mt. Kilimanjaro. I know, kind of lame that we were there and didn't climb the whole thing...but it was still SO amazing. It was absolutely beautiful, it seemed like we were hiking through a jungle. We ate lunch near a crater in the mountain and then headed back down to the base of the mountain. The whole climb took us about 6 hours and was very difficult but so rewarding. Driving home was such a blessing to, as we came across the most breathtaking view of Mt. Kili as the sun was setting.




Sunday morning we woke up and headed back to Nairobi, where I am staying until December 3rd. Tanzania was beautiful and I loved being able to see another country in East Africa. It was also a much needed break from the hustle of Nairobi.

Tomorrow morning I move into an (AWESOME) apartment with five best friends. We will be living there for the month as we each work on our own research projects. I'm SO excited to have my own space and to be living with these girls. I'm also am pumped about starting my research. I'm sure that I'll have lots of fun stories to share throughout the next month. Here's a little preview of what my apartment will be like... ridiculousness.



Sorry to rush the entry..I just wanted to make sure I posted this before I turn off my computer for the evening.  I miss everyone back home a ton! It's hard to believe that in a little over a month I will be headed back to the states. This semester has flown by.

More updates to come soon!

Until next time--

Megan